Reality.
Words fill this domain once again, but as much delight I have to write; the unpleasant greets me. Scoring a reason for me blabber in the middle of the night. As much how i wished that we could turn back the hands of time somehow or rather because to have what it was last week was just impeccably good.
Well, you sit on a late Sunday night before the clock strikes 12, hoping and praying for things to go well for the upcoming week. You took a breather, and closed your eyes for a well deserve rest. I woke up to find out certain uncertainties and news that broke the serenity of hoping for a fantabulous week.
Not the best way to greet the week.
Pressurised, and i did try to take things in my own stride but eventually i just had to confide to someone but as much i do not want to spoil the mood of people because of the complexity of my situation; i decided to be selfish. The best friend offered a lending ear (i mean what are best friend’s for ain’t it?).
Obviously, being selfish for a moment, took a quick toll on me and with some heart i have left, i promised not to dampen his day so we’ll talk things tomorrow. Somehow, that made me smile.
Life is like a palette of colours, a rainbow,Gah. Life is full of colour, you get my drift. The colours depict the journey you are going through. Be it the blackest of your day, or the uplifting yellow that brightens up your day. As troubled a day or week can be, someone will always be there to put that smile where it used to belong in some way or another.
It is really up to you to face each day with positivity. Our lives are balanced out with equal proportions of the good and the bad. Imagine when everything in our lives is filled with contentment, joy, mirth and laughter. The thought of it sounds amazing, but face it; we look like a bunch of robotic mechanisms exclusively on crack. Where are the emotions?, how is it possible when one could do nothing else but be entirely positive about everything in this world. A world without emotions is a world without life.
Everyone goes through pain, either we deal it ourselves or we have friends or families to share with. We all have our demons to battle, but that doesn’t mean you tell people your feelings, you want them to go through the hurt together with you. It isn’t a buddy system ya’ll. Advice, they’re giving you some wisdom, a shoulder to lean on. Remember, the best is always good enough one could give. We’re not oracle’s that predicts the future and solves problems; we’re just giving the thoughts from another perspective and a little gesture of care and concern.
It sucks isn’t it when reality snaps back.
How i wish i could have a discerning eye for all things good. Well, definitely what’s best in the beginning of each day is definitely a smile. A benevolent smile creates wonders, it’s a note of appreciation that one always feels thankful for. For instance: You woke up facing the wrong side of the bed, you knew that the day ahead doesn’t look promising as a cloudy impression vaguely forms in your mind. You’re cranky, and your cat spills the cup of coffee you made all over your crisp white shirt. Time noted; only 30 minutes since your eyes gave light and within this half an hour, nothing good seemed to roll by. You left home, heading for work and realise you left your briefcase.. well..you get my drift now. You unwilling reach out for your office door, and there’s your assistant comfortably sitting at her desk, and gives you the warmest smile she has which immediately brightens up the room, well not because of her notably white teeth but a benign smile. It doesn’t cure but it definitely warms your heart and puts everything at ease. A smile a day puts you a long way.
Together with a nice cup of coffee.
